Saturday, February 27, 2010
Confession
Thursday, February 25, 2010
ENT Visit
They had fun playing in the waiting room for a few minutes, and then they called us back. They wanted to weigh both girls which made me a little nervous. Do you remember the screaming episode at Lily's 3 year check-up when the nurse wanted her to stand on the scale? I do. However, this time she stepped right up to admire the stickers that were on the scale; she held my pinkie finger too, but I figured that wouldn't matter. She was 34 pounds. They asked us if Mia would stand on the scale too, but we figured though she could, she wouldn't stand still long enough for it to read. We put her in the carseat-like scale instead; she looked terrified, but she didn't cry. She weighed in right about 24 pounds. Of course, their clothes add a little bit of weight, but it's always good to know approximately what they weigh.
Next we went into a little room to wait for the physician assistant. Both girls quickly realized the little round stool can spin really fast. I helped Lily up and spun her around; Mia started banging on the chair a minute later. Thankfully, Lily readily agreed to share, hopped down and helped me spin Mia. We alternated a few times until the PA arrives. Both girls did very well while they were examined. She looked at Mia first and said it looked like the far end of the tubes might have a little bit of dried blood on it, but because of it's location she couldn't tell if it was on it or in it. She said a quick puff of air test conducted in a few minutes could determine that. She also looked in her nose and in her throat and said everything looked good (minus the runny nose Mia is currently sporting). Then she looked at Lily's ears, and said they looked perfect. She checked her nose (perfect) and her throat. She noted her tonsils looked swollen which made me nervous because I had just been reading about how many kids have their tonsils taken out unnecessarily. Then she looked in the chart and determined it was most likely a temporary thing from a cold because her tonsils had been very small at the pre-op visit. What a relief.
After seeing the PA, we went to the hearing test room. The doctor ran the puff of air test on both of them, and said the results were really good; air is going completely through all tubes which means any fluid in there is draining properly. Then Lily and I went into the sound-proof booth where they ran the same hearing test as before on her. She wears a set of earphones and when instructed, she puts a peg on a board and builds a tower that way (Lily always loves to build tall towers). They did this for awhile and she was done. The doctor said she did great! Then Ryan and Mia went into the booth where they ran a hearing test on her. They make various noises and watch her reaction to them. She did well too! The doctor then told us the tests prove there is a big improvement in their hearing; Lily is now in "normal" range at all levels and Mia passed her test too. Since Lily could wear headphones, they determined that her hearing is good in both ears. Mia is too young for the headphones, so they cannot determine definitely that both ears are good, but they think they are because she was responding appropriately to the sounds coming from different parts of the booth.
Since those results turned out great, we were ready to go. Lily was very excited to pick out a sticker from their basket at check-out for her and for Mia (she referred to this in her song on the car ride to the doctor...see previous blog entry). They had lots of different ones to pick from. She picked two Bob the Builder characters. I don't think she has ever even seen Bob the Builder, but whatever, she thought they were cool. Then she changed her mind and said I could pick one for Mia instead. I decided on a Mickey Mouse one; this made Lily put hers back, and she ended up with a Cinderella one. By the time we got to the car, she had switched them and taken the Mickey Mouse for herself, but she pulled the Cinderella one off the paper for Mia to play with. Who knew one (or two) stickers was such a great reward for behaving well at the doctor's office?
Even though we can definitely see a difference in the girls, and we felt like the tubes were working great, it is such a relief for the doctors to confirm it! We are so thankful that Dr. White referred us to Dr. Baktha's office, and that he successfully placed the tubes in their ears so they can hear well. What a wonderful blessing to know that our girls can hear!
Lily Stories
1. She was doing a really good job of brushing her teeth, so when she finished I said "You are such a big girl! When did you turn into a big girl?" Lily looked at me and said "Thursday. I turned into a big girl last Thursday." Okay, good to know.
2. The finishing touch on her outfit this morning was her bracelet that she got at Chuck E Cheese a few months ago. She said she wanted to put it on "so I can be pretty like you." That made me feel really good!
3. Ryan, Lily, Mia and I went to the pediatric ENT's office today for their post-op follow-up. For about 5 minutes, Lily was singing a song; we tried listening, but she was singing softly; it was hard to hear everything she was saying, but what would I have given to had my video camera then! I wish I could remember everything she said. However, these were the (remembered) lyrics we heard her say in a very sing-song kind of voice. Oh, I have titled the song "Train of Thought..."
Saturday, February 20, 2010
Precious Amelia
She knows how to give a real kiss too which is great. She'll give them to us, but she really loves to kiss the prince in the Little People set...watch out boys, here she comes! I could eat her up she's so adorable!
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
Mommy Guilt
Work is what typically causes my guilt to come out. Don't get me wrong, I absolutely love owning my own CPA company, and I honestly think if I won the lottery some day, I would continue to run it (with a few tweaks). I love helping people navigate their way through our complex tax code though I'm not a fan of the code itself. I am proud of the fact that I worked hard to earn the CPA designation, and I get to use it doing something I enjoy. Being a full-time stay-at-home parent is by far the hardest job imaginable; I had a taste of it for the first two years of Lily's life, and I know it would be a hundred times more difficult with having Mia there too. I have a lot of respect for the parents who do stay at home because I don't think I have it in me to do this. By being my own boss though, I have a very flexible schedule allowing me to play with the girls during the day and take them to the doctor or on "field trips." During most of the year, I can just decide I don't want to go work because I want to hang out with the family; I don't have to call that in to my boss. However, for about 12 weeks out of the year, I have to deal with tax season and this is when mommy guilt strikes. I'm in the midst of it right now, and it's hard. I am able to play with both girls for a little bit before I leave for work in the morning which is nice. I try really hard to be home between 5:30 and 6 during the week so I can cook dinner and play with them again before bed time. If I have to return to work after they go to bed, so be it.
Last night though broke my heart. I knew I needed to work late to catch up on some things, so I talked to Ryan. He and the girls came to pick me up and we went to Chick-fil-a for dinner. We had a lot of fun talking and being together. I love time with my family! We were gone for about an hour. When they dropped me back off at my office, I turned around, looked at Mia and said "Night-night Mia. I love you! I'll see you in the morning." She gave me a big smile and blew me a kiss which in turn melted my heart in the freezing cold. Then I looked at Lily who immediately started this conversation:
L: You going back to work Mommy?
M: Yes, baby. I need to go back to work for a little while longer.
L: But you're not supposed to go back to work!
M: I know sweetheart, but sometimes I just have to.
Lily is staring me down.
M: I love you Lily. I'll see you in the morning, okay?
Lily tightly closes her eyes, puts her thumb in her mouth, shakes her head back and forth while saying "uh-uh."
Sigh. It's not that I wanted to go back to work at night, but sometimes we have to things we don't want to do. I think it's difficult for Lily because I don't do this very often; if this were "normal" for us, I don't think she would have made that comment. I know in the long run that Lily won't remember this evening which is a little bit comforting. Most of the time I feel like I'm a pretty good mom, but events like this bring the mommy guilt on hard.
Sunday, February 14, 2010
Happy Valentine's Day
When we left church, we decided to drive a little bit and go to Taco Mac so the girls could rest. Mia fell asleep almost immediately; Lily didn't sleep but she was pretty quiet and rested. We had a good lunch, came home and then it was time for presents. Granna, Papa and Meme had stopped by yesterday and delivered Valentine's gifts which the girls loved; they each had a bag full of cool goodies. Lily adores this little pen that has a light-up heart on the end, and we all enjoyed the cookies that were included for both girls! When we got home though, we let the girls open their presents from us (an ABC puzzle for Lily and an animal flap book for Mia) and cards from Granny. They also had great gift bags from Grandpops and Grandma Jan. Lily was so excited to pull out each gift; it took many reminders for her to let Mia open her bag. The funniest thing to me was Lily pulled out a My Little Pony horse; I didn't even know she has ever played with one before. She immediately exclaimed "Ah! A My Little Pony! Mommy, look, it's a My Little Pony!" After pulling out all the gifts, she wanted to open the pony first. She said "Mommy, do you know what this is? Say it like me." And then she had me repeat "My. Lit. Tle. Pony. My Little Pony." Two of Mia's gifts were new books which we read to her over and over; she loves them.
After playing for a bit, it was nap time. We all four took naps which was a treat; unfortunately though, Lily woke up early and Mia never fully settled down. Since they woke Ryan and me up early, we were all a little grumpy for the next little while. However, I got a grocery list together and Lily and I went to the store. She loves going to the grocery store and "helping" me pick out items that we need. We actually had a lot of fun together on this trip, and we talked almost the whole time. Lily also serenaded me with lots of songs from The Little Einsteins; it was pretty cute to hear her singing songs to the classical music they play. After we got home, the girls ate some dinner, and then Lily helped me make a special batch of brownies. I have a heart-shaped pan that I thought would make a cute dessert; I was right, the brownies looked (and tasted) delicious. Lily always enjoys helping me cook, so this was a fun and quick activity. After that, we played for a little bit and then it was bed time. Both girls went down a little early tonight with the early morning and short naps; neither fought it. After they went down, Ryan and I started our Valentine's dinner. Ryan grilled a couple of delicious filet mignons; we also had some baked potatoes and baguette bread with our delicious EVOO and garlic dip. It was very yummy!
Overall, this was a long and pretty ordinary day (with the exception of opening presents), but it's special that it was Valentine's Day. Lily has been having so much fun making Valentine's card all week. She would give me cards throughout the week and say it was "because I love you." I love hearing her say those words. I know it's a little cheesy but we definitely have a house filled with love for one another. Valentine's Day is a great day to celebrate that!
Mom helped Mia open her goodie bag. Mia loved her little teddy bear, and this "A" cookie looked really good to her.
Saturday, February 13, 2010
Snow Days!
A little snowman made by Bama. Lily loved it.
We had a fun little snowball fight on the playground. Here's Liz getting a good one at Ryan.Time with Aunt Kendall
15 Month Check-Up
They said Mia did well for most of her appointment. She weighed in at 22 pounds, 5 ounces (40th percentile) which is a few ounces less than on Tuesday; that's not surprising since she seems to have lost her appetite. She is 30 inches tall (also 40th percentile), and her head is 18 inches (50th percentile). She's apparently an "average" girl but only in regards to physical size! They told me that Mia gave Dr. White her patented staredown throughout the appointment. She wouldn't turn her head away from Dr. White, but would only glance away momentarily. Dr. White said her tubes are doing their job perfectly; there's no fluid which is great. Of course, we can tell that because the difference in her speech skills over this last month is incredible.
Ryan said Mia even did well while Dr. White examined the diaper rash. Dr. White decided that since the cream didn't seem to be helping and Mia had developed a terrible runny nose, a virus is actually the culprit of the diarrhea which causes the diaper rash. Of course, if it's a virus, there's not much we can do but let it run its course. She suggested we cut all sugary fruits out of Mia's diet until it clears up because those can irritate the rash. This is unfortunate because this makes up a large part of Mia's diet, but of course we're going to follow this recommendation. She also said if the diarrhea didn't stop soon, she would suggest we switch from regular milk to soy milk because this could be temporary lactose intolerance. I'm really hoping it doesn't come to that. She said to put Neosporin on the rash but not on the open wound areas and to keep the diaper rash cream on. I'm telling you, it's bad. We started all the recommendations immediately, and we saw a little bit of improvement today. Here's hoping this continues.
Other than the diaper rash, Mia is doing great. Now that the tubes are in, her speech is getting better everyday. On the list of "normal development" things that "you might see your child doing between the ages of 15 and 18 month" the first thing listed is "avidly explores everything." This perfectly describes our sweet Mia! She wants to check everything out and discover everything in her world. She loves music and books, and she is learning to play with Lily very well. She is such a precious little angel. We are madly in love with her and so thankful that she is in our lives!
Tuesday, February 9, 2010
Beatles Music
She then told us that she wanted a Beatle toy for Christmas. Ryan thought for a second and then remembered he had a Paul McCartney figurine, so he grabbed that from downstairs and gave it to her. She said she had a Paul Beatle figure, and she loved it! She even took it with her to Dr. White's office today (Ryan took both girls because Mia has a diaper rash that is terrible and bleeding; she now has prescription diaper cream to make it better). Dr. White thought it was pretty cool. Lily has been having fun with it all day.
Saturday, February 6, 2010
What A Great Night!
We decided to have dinner at South City Kitchen, and as usual, it was wonderful. They have the best Maryland She-Crab Soup that I get every time I go; I can't resist it. It was delicious! Ryan and I always love to go down to Symphony Hall to hear their concerts. Tonight, the ASO was featuring Michael Feinstein and his Sinatra Project. It was awesome! The orchestra was perfect, and Feinstein was amazing. He sounded great while singing, and I could have listened to him play the piano all night. He started out with my favorite Sinatra song, Luck Be A Lady, which was cool. We didn't recognize most of the songs he played after that because they were more obscure Sinatra songs, but they were great. Of course, at the end of the show, he played some of Sinatra's most famous songs which was cool. It was wonderful!
Thursday, February 4, 2010
The Store
L: (pointing to her Mickey Mouse pillow) Do you know where this came from?
M: Where?
L: The Mickey Mouse store! (points to her little polka dot pillow) Do you know where this one came from?
M: Grandma Parkinson made that pillow for you.
L: No! I want to tell you the store it came from.
M: Okay, where?
L: The polka dot store! (points to the little princess pillow) Do you know where this one came from?
M: No, where?
L: The...princess store!
M: Where did the big pillow on your bed come from?
L: The polka dot store too. (It has several big dots on it).
She did this same routine again tonight. She cracks me up!
Monday, February 1, 2010
Wheels on the Bus
Miscellaneous Pictures
We all enjoyed spaghetti a few nights ago. Here's a picture of Mia double-fisting it as she shoveled it into her mouth.
Happy Birthday Molly
Lily said Mia's favorite bouncy was the one with the stairs and big slide. She was right. I carried Mia up the stairs probably 3 dozen times. Sometimes we go down together and sometimes she went down by herself; it didn't matter which way - she loved it! I have to admit, I loved it too!
The girls also enjoyed the regular, square jumpy. It's similar to the one we have at home, but it's bigger. Mia did pretty well standing up and walking through here even as Lily and other kids bounced around her. She was laughing the whole time! At one point, Lily was pretty much in the middle of the bouncy and she took a big leap towards me standing by the door. She slipped when she landed, slid through the door and flipped onto the hard floor. All of the adults around gasped, and my heart stopped for a second, but she jumped up, said "I'm okay Mommy" and got right back in to keep jumping.
You should have seen how red Lily's face was at the end of the party! She was worn out! Both girls spent the whole night laughing, running and just being happy; it was great to see. Lily talked about it most of the way home. On Saturday morning, one of the first things she said was "that party was so much fun!" She also loved the goodie bag Molly sent home with her. She went through it in the car; all of a sudden she said "Mommy, I forgot to tell Molly thank you for the goody bag!" I promised her we will tell Molly next time we talk to her. The girls were worn out by all the fun they had. We got home about 8:30, so Mia went straight to bed and Lily followed shortly thereafter. They slept until 9:30 Sunday morning; what a treat! I think we're going to need to visit the jumpy house near our house a little more often now!
Lily's Bedtime
Each night after we say our prayers we tell a story about one of the cities on her ABC board. Then, to get her up and into bed, I always spin her around and drop her into bed; it makes her laugh. I will ask her "Do you want to spin fast or slow? Frontways or backways?" Without fail she giggles "Fast and backways!" Tonight though she thought and said "Backways and MODERATO!" I couldn't help but laugh as she then proceeded to tell me about watching a Little Einsteins and how they helped the little pig by going from slow to moderato to superfast. She cracks me up!