Saturday, June 27, 2009
A Few Recent Pictures
The New Pool
After running our errands, I told her it was time for her surprise, and I asked if she wanted to know where we were going, so of course she said yes. I said "the toy store" to which Lily replied "the book store?!", and I said "no, the toy store." Her reply..."oh." That's not exactly the response I was expecting, but after thinking about it, I realized she didn't know what a toy store was because she has only been once before, and we have been to the book store many, many times. As soon as we walked in the door of Toys R Us though, her eyes got wide, and she just started saying "Oh, Mommy, look! Look over there! Mommy look!" She was really excited when I found the one I was looking for. She even told the lady at check-out "This my new pool!"
She couldn't wait for Ryan to get the pool all blown up and ready for her, but it took a little while. She kept watching him out the window though and giving me updates. I have never heard her speak in such a high, excited voice as she said "He almost done Mommy! He almost done!" When Ryan called to tell me he just had to put the water in, I started to get the girls ready. We put on Lily's swim diaper, swimsuit and swim shoes (she loves to wear a specific pair of shoes when she goes to a pool). After she was dressed she said "I be excited Mommy!" We got Mia dressed and headed down. She was thrilled!
The water was pretty cold which felt great on such a hot day, but it took Lily a few minutes to get used to it and really get in and play. First she started with the ball slide which go down both sides of the smaller, wading pool. Then she had a great time playing in the larger pool (not that either of the pools are very big) with her bucket and shovel. Finally, she had a blast going down the little slide that connects the two. She was having such a great time; Ryan and I had fun just watching her! She stayed out there for a couple of hours (Mia had already gone down for her nap), and she was not very happy when we told her it was nap time. She asked about the pool as she soon as she woke up from her nap too. It's so fun to see when she loves something!
A Trip to Tokyo
First, the waitress brought out a soup that Liz and I both love, but Lily refused to try which didn't surprise me too much. Then they brought a salad with a wonderful ginger dressing. Lily started eating the carrots from her salad. On the second bite, she apparently got a little bit of dressing on one...she loved it! "That good dip Mommy!" is what I heard, so then she started actually eating the salad which I couldn't believe. After we finished with our soups and salads, the chef came out and started preparing the stove top which includes making a huge fire. Lily was not a fan. She looked at me and asked to come sit in my lap; I didn't let her, but I did let her hold my hand. Right after that, he started showing off his knife and spatula skills which was pretty loud. Lily is very aware of sounds around her, so she really didn't like that either. I was starting to wonder if I made a really bad decision.
Then, the chef started to cook. From this point on, Lily was great. She loves rice, so she was excited to see him start cooking that first. Check out this picture (ignoring the finger in her nose) as she watched him cook. Thankfully, the other people at the table found Lily very entertaining with the commentary she added as she watched.
The chef did a great job cooking the steak. I truly appreciated that he cut her pieces into small bite-size pieces. She really seemed to enjoy it. She ate several bites of it, but really, she was into the rice so we ended up bringing most of the steak home as left-overs. The chef also prepared delicious vegetables for us. He asked Lily what her favorite vegetable was and she told him carrots. I thought it was so nice of him to take her portion of vegetables, pull out all the carrots and cut them into smaller bite-size pieces; he gave her a few of the other veggies too, but I liked that he gave her a lot of carrots. Unfortunately, she didn't want much to do with those, probably because she was so full of rice. Here's a picture of her plate before we packed it up. Notice how much rice is left as compared to the picture above which was taken after several minutes of eating the rice.
After the chef cleaned up the stove top, we applauded his efforts. Then, as he was walking off, he looked at Lily and said "See you tomorrow!" She enthusiastically replied "Ok!" Several times after we left, Lily mentioned how much she liked her lunch in Tokyo which I was very glad to hear. Overall, Lily did a great job. I can't wait to take her again sometime soon!
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
Ryan
We got to celebrate Ryan a little on Sunday because it was Father's Day. Lily greeted him with "Happy Daddy's Day!" and then we gave him his cards and present (The Bourne Triology DVD set) which he loved. We enjoyed our morning at church, and then we headed out to lunch. Both girls fell asleep in the car, so we actually drove around for about an hour to let them rest and then had a yummy lunch at Taco Mac (one of Ryan's favorites). We played at home all afternoon, and then headed over to my brother's house for dinner. Wayne and Dianne made a fantastic shrimp and ribeye steak dinner for us. In addition to celebrating the wonderful dads in our life (Ryan, my dad and my brother), we wished my dad a happy birthday. It was a wonderful day and evening.
Thank you, Ryan, for being such a fantastic dad!
Lily Happenings
1. You know Lily loves the Little Einsteins and that she loves to dance. She really likes June who is a little ballerina. While Bama was here last week, she helped Lily learn a "ballerina dance" as Lily calls it. First, she puts her hands above her head and turns around in a circle while counting to three. Second, she points one foot's toes, then the other foot's toes. Third, she dances on her tippy-toes. Fourth, she courtseys. It's adorable! I asked her if she wanted to take ballet class someday. Her eyes got really wide, and she said "oh yes!" I think we'll still wait another year or two on that, but maybe we have a little dancer on our hands.
2. Lily has been doing very well (knock on wood) at staying in bed all night for about a week now. She went on three vacations in May, and I think that really messed up her sleeping habits because she was sleeping with someone else (either Bama or myself) in a different bed than usual and then she was sick and not sleeping well, so for a couple of weeks, she was getting out of bed around 2:00 AM...very frustrating! Finally, she started staying in bed all night again. After the first night of her sleeping in her bed, I really praised her before the next night's bedtime. One of the things I said is "You are AWESOME!" Well, she has really become attached to that word! Every night before bed now, when I ask if she is going to stay in bed all night, she says "Yes. I'm awesome! You awesome too Mommy."
3. Our friend, Chris, and his daughter, Peyton, came over to hang out with Ryan, Lily and Mia this morning. While Lily had several sharing issues while they were here, Ryan said she was angel after they left. At one point she started cleaning up her playroom, and she told Ryan "I clean for Mommy." I guess she knows how much I prefer to have a clean house. She was so proud of herself, and so was I!
Monday, June 22, 2009
ABC
Saturday, June 20, 2009
Two Family Pictures

Thursday, June 18, 2009
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
New Nanny
Kim had turned in her resignation in April, but said she would stay with us until we found someone else we were comfortable with. Well, we have found a wonderful new nanny...Bama! She is going to start coming over on Wednesday evenings, so she can be with the girls on Thursday and Fridays while Ryan and I go to work. We are very grateful for this opportunity. Liz is amazing with the girls, and we are so glad they will form a close bond with her. Thank you Liz!
Mia's Dedication
The preschool minister introduces a family to the church. Then Anne Wright, the pastor's wife, picks the baby up to hold while Bryant Wright, the pastor, gives each child a verse. Mia's verse is Proverbs 3:5-6 which says "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your pathways straight." Then Bryant asks if we commit to raising our child in a Christ-centered home, and then he greets the baby. Anne hands the baby back and they move on to the next family.
Our church is pretty large so they have camera crews that project everything up onto the big screens for everyone to see better. Apparently while Anne was holding Mia, she was fixated with Barrett Johnson, one of the other ministers at the church, who was sitting in the front row. He was making faces at her, and she couldn't keep her eyes or sweet smile off of him!
Here is one other thing that I think is pretty cool about baby dedication. The church gives us a "goody bag" beforehand with several things in it, but one of them is a letter from the pastor. It is to be given to the child once she accepts Christ as her Savior. The letter tells her how she was dedicated to the Lord today and this is just the beginning of her Christian life that leads her to accepting Christ. I think that is pretty neat.
This was a very special day for Mia and our family, so to celebrate the occasion, we had a small luncheon at our house afterwards. Unfortunately, I had been feeling pretty sick for a couple of days (thank you Lily and Mia for sharing your cold with me), so I didn't cook anything; Publix fried chicken with Jim and Nick's cinnamon apples, mac and cheese and biscuits. Also, I didn't even think to get the camera out because I could barely stay awake through lunch. Thankfully, the church hires a photographer to take complimentary pictures of us before the dedication, so we'll get those in a week or so. Mia is certainly getting the short end of the stick when it comes to picture-taking.
Friday, June 12, 2009
Around the House
Lily is still having lots of fun around the house even if she's not feeling 100%. Here are few quick stories...
1. She loves to play with balls. She is getting pretty good at throwing them too, unless of course she is being silly. When she is being silly, she likes to throw side-arm, and there's no telling where it will end up then. She likes to say she is playing baseball; this is probably because we have the Braves' games on most nights. However, she makes me laugh because she has one little ball that looks a lot like Pluto's "super duper bouncy ball" on Mickey Mouse Clubhouse. She calls it her "soupy doupy bouncy ball" which just cracks me up. Not only do I laugh hearing her say "soupy doupy," but the ball doesn't bounce at all; it's meant to stick to walls when you throw it! I don't think she has grasped the concept of souper duper bouncy yet.
2. We read Bible stories to her each night before bedtime. The other day (after having friends over earlier in the evening), she said "Jesus is coming to our house too. He come in his car." I told her Jesus is always welcome in our house. I didn't know how to explain that he probably wouldn't come in a car though. Also, Ryan read to her before her nap yesterday, and she told him she wanted to go to Moses' house. Hmmm, that's a little tricky too...
3. I don't know where she learned about magic tricks, but she has picked that up somehow. Each night now when I'm drying her hair, she gets three lotion-type bottles that sit by our sink. She holds two of them and pushes them together against the third one so that when she raises her hands up, all three bottles are picked up. She is always so proud of herself for doing this and she'll say "Look Mommy, it's a magic trick!" She also told Ryan in the shower that she was going to do a trick...she took the two loofahs we have hanging up in there and switched their places. I guess she knows what creatures of habit we are, so this is a trick to put them back in different places!
4. We were eating dinner yesterday, and I said something was beautiful. She said "you beautiful Mommy" which absolutely melted my heart; I certainly don't feel it these days with this huge new scar. Then she looked up at our wedding picture that hangs on the fireplace and said "that a beautiful picture." So sweet.
5. We had an afternoon thunderstorm yesterday that woke Lily up from her nap. When she came out of her room, she was still yawning, so Ryan said she could come lay down on him for a little bit. One and a half hours later she was still knocked out on his stomach! It was precious to see, and I think Ryan loved it!
Tuesday, June 9, 2009
Mia Kisses
Sunday, June 7, 2009
Kids' Update
A couple of cute little stories about our sweet girl...
1. We were going over to the Shafer's house for dinner Saturday evening. Their oldest daughter, Alexis, is about a month younger than Lily; their youngest daughter, Christen, is two months younger than Mia. We have a lot in common these days! Even though Diane and I talk often, it has been a few months since we all had the chance to get together. As were getting ready to leave the house, I told Lily we were going to Alexis' house. She got really excited and said "She is my favoritest friend in the whole world." They had a great time playing together.
2. Lily loves to do the "search and find" books. On the back of one of the books is a picture of another search and find book. For several weeks, Lily would point to the picture every time we read the book, and say "I want that book. We go to the store and buy it. You have to pay for it first. Okay Mommy?" Well, I was at BJ's on Friday and they had the book. I couldn't resist. I bought it and after Lily's afternoon snack, I told her I had a surprise for her. As soon as I pulled out the book, she got so excited! We immediately sat down to read it, and she told me thank you when we finished. The joyful look on her face was priceless. In two days we have probably read that book at least two dozen times. It's the first book she goes to in the morning or after nap time. She loves it. She has told me thank you multiply times and has told Ryan several times that "Mommy bought it for me." This is the first thing she has truly wanted and is so grateful to receive it. It is very easy for me to see how parents spoil their children; it makes me so happy to see her so happy and excited!
Remember how I had shoulder surgery on Monday? Well I have been told not to pick up anything heavy (i.e., Lily) for 6 weeks. She seems to understand this, but she doesn't like it. I have to remind her multiple times a day that I can't pick her up because of my boo-boo. She always asks to see my scar and when I show it to her, she says "Ahhh. I have boo-boo on my shoulder. I go to Dr. White's office and she make it better." This morning as we were eating breakfast I asked her if she had any good dreams; she said "Un-huh" so I asked what they were. She said "you picked me up." Talk about driving a knife into my heart. We all are looking forward to a full recovery soon!
I put some pictures of the girls together in the blog post before this one, but here are a couple individual pictures of them.
Wednesday, June 3, 2009
Lily's Thoughts
1. As I was putting Mia to bed, she and Ryan were playing in the den, and she started to walk towards the office. She turned around, held up her hand and told Ryan "I'm going to check my email."
2. Each night as I put Lily to bed, I tell all of her stuffed animals good night and then I say something to the effect of "Good night to my favorite 2-year-old." Tonight she said "You 2 Mommy?" so I replied "No, I'm a lot older than 2." Her eyes got wide and she said "You 4?"
I tell you what, she makes us laugh everyday!
Surgery Update
Dr. Delman had a difficult time locating the mass at first, and then it wasn't exactly what he was expecting. It turned out to be something called a hermanginoma which has to do with the blood vessels and is similar to an aneurysm, but it is not nearly as serious. Dr. Delman was able to remove all of it and some of the surrounding tissue. He called in a pathologist who found it to be benign; they will send it for further testing, but there is no reason to think they will find anything different. The surgery took a little longer than expected, but overall it went well.
I spent Monday and Tuesday nights at my parents' house, so I could get some needed rest. The pain medicine they gave me makes me pretty tired. I have been told not to pick up anything heavy or go swimming for 6 weeks. Unfortunately, Lily and Mia are included in that "anything heavy" list, so that will be interesting! I have a lovely 6 inch scar on the base of my neck now too; a small price to pay I guess.
I am very thankful that the doctors did a great job, and it appears all is fine. I am also thankful to Ryan for all the extra help he already has given (and will continue to give) around the house and with the girls. Also, thank you to my parents for letting me stay over for a few days and to Liz and David for coming over to help with the girls while I was gone. I certainly have a long list of things to be thankful for!
Friday, May 29, 2009
Friday Night Concert
It was a beautiful night tonight; perfect for being outside. We all enjoyed getting to talk to one another while the kids just sat in their strollers, ate dinner and people-watched. Lily was fascinated by the guy walking around on stilts; "Mommy, he's tall like a giraffe!" is what I heard multiple times. There is a pretty big water fountain in the middle so Ryan took her to see that a few times. Brian, Parker, Ryan and Lily threw a football around for a little bit. All the kids were doing great. Macie fell asleep about 7:30, and I knew Mia was getting tired; she had missed her evening nap and it was coming up on bedtime. I put her down in the stroller and she was doing great just laying there playing with the canopy. Well, just before 8, a little boy (probably about 5) from the family sitting behind us was looking at her in the stroller. All of a sudden, he growled at her! It terrified Mia and she started crying really hard. The boy's mom apologized and made him apologize. I held Mia but it took her several minutes to calm down; she certainly wasn't going to lay down and go to sleep though!
The concert started and Lily was really enjoying the music. Ryan held her up so she could see the band, but she wanted to get closer. Jill, Parker, Lily and I made our way down right in front of the stage. Lily seemed fascinated watching the musicians. She loves music so she thought this was really cool; she loved seeing three guitars just like hers. After we sat there for a few minutes, she decided it was time to dance, so she pulled me up and we had fun dancing together. Parker and Jill were dancing too. After a couple of songs, Lily grabbed Parker's hands and they started dancing together; what I would give to have had the camera with me, but it was back with Ryan! They were adorable together. Lily took the lead, pulling Parker up and down and back and forth; he didn't seem to mind. It was so cute! After they finished, we danced some more and then headed back to everyone else. We stayed a little while longer (and snagged Lily a purple balloon), but decided we didn't want to wait until the very end because that would make leaving more difficult and it was already well past bedtime. We packed up and headed on home and have just put the girls down. I am interested to see if this makes a difference on their wake times tomorrow. What a great way to spend a Friday night!
Thursday, May 28, 2009
ABC
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
The Start of Summer
The first day we gave them to her, she had some problems keeping the peas in her mouth. See?
Lily finished up her first "school" year last Wednesday. She gave Ms. Delta a big hug before leaving and told her thank you which I thought was sweet. We are so appreciative for Bethany United Methodist where Lily went this year. She had a rocky start, but the teachers were so patient and have really helped Lily grow so much this year. She is already excited about returning in the fall. We are so proud of our little girl!
Lily has grown quite fond of "lipstick" over the last few days too. Her lipstick is actually chap stick, but she loves putting it on. She watches herself intensely in the mirror as she carefully applies it to her lips; it's pretty cute to watch. She likes to carry the chap stick around with her too. This evening, I had stepped into our room while she was playing in the playroom and Mia was playing in the den; Lily came in a few minutes later carrying her chap stick and said "Now Mia have lipstick too." I tried explaining to her that since Mia is a baby, she shouldn't wear lipstick; we'll see how long it takes before it gets on her again.
Memorial Day weekend is when I consider the start of summer though I know that's not technically correct. We had a great weekend. The girls went to Birmingham while Ryan and I stayed home all weekend. We had a wonderful dinner at Marlow's Tavern, and then we caught up on a lot of our Tivo Friday night and went to bed about midnight. We both took two Tylenol PM before bed; Ryan slept until 10 Saturday morning and I didn't get up until noon...it was fantastic! We then spent the afternoon cleaning the house. Saturday night we went to Neil and Kate Wisdom's house for a little get-together which was fun. It was so nice to just enjoy time with friends and not worry what the girls were getting into! We watched Miracle At Santa Anna Saturday night which was interesting, but really long. Sunday morning we went to church. That afternoon we went to see Angels and Demons which was really good. After the movie we went to Nava which is one of our very favorite restaurants; it was delicious again! That is where we go almost anytime we get a babysitter because we love it so much. Since Monday was Memorial Day, we were able to just hang around the house and relax; we had forgotten how nice it was to just watch tv or read and not think about when the girls would be up. That afternoon, Ryan went to pick up the girls at the state line while I went to my mom and dad's for a little bit. It was a great weekend!
Lily has actually had a little head cold for several days. Last night, she was so tired but she was having a hard time staying asleep. I took her back to bed in the middle of the night twice; she rarely gets out of bed anymore so I knew something was up. When she came in a third time, I realized staying in her bed just wasn't going to happen. She put her pillow up on our bed and I helped her climb in. She went right to sleep leaning right up against me. At some point though, she moved over, and when I woke up this morning, this is what I found...
As for other things going on in our lives right now...Ryan quit his job as a mortgage loan officer last Thursday, so he can come work with me at my expanded CPA firm. His first day was today. We are both so excited about this new opportunity! He has a lot to learn about the accounting world, but he is already working on it, and I have full confidence that he will pick it up quickly. This new arrangement will also allow Ryan to be with the girls more which is great. We truly think this will be a great set-up for our family.
I received a call last week from the oncology surgeon at Emory that I had met with about my shoulder. He reviewed my second MRI and said that the lesion that was sitting like a golf ball on my shoulder has definitely shrunk in size, but it is still there. However, it is currently not entangled with any veins, arteries, etc, so he is recommending that I have it removed before it grows and attaches to anything. We have scheduled the procedure for next Monday at 7:30 AM. I am nervous because they are going to put me to sleep for it, but it is an outpatient procedure that should take about 2 hours to perform. They will send it for a biopsy afterward, but the doctor feels very confident that it is benign. I certainly appreciate any prayers that are offered for this procedure, recovery and biopsy. After everything is cleared up with this lesion, he is going to refer me to an endocrinologist because both MRIs picked up on something small on my thyroid that he wants me to check on though he said typically, they would not even worry about something this small. I like a doctor who is cautious and wants to check everything out.
So, that's where we are now. Looks like we have an exciting summer ahead of us!
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
6 Months Old!
She is currently in a size 2 diaper though we'll move her up once this big box runs out. She can still wear most of her 6 month clothes, but she wears a lot of 9 month items right now because that's what Lily was wearing this time of year, and she was kind enough to hand everything down to Mia. Mia puts her hands in her mouth a lot these days which made me think she was teething, but Dr. White says she just has bumpy gums, and it doesn't appear a tooth is going to erupt anytime soon.
Dr. White did notice that Mia seems to have too much fluid in her ears. It doesn't appear to be infected, and she has not shown any signs of it bothering her. However, she is not yet making any of the consonant sounds (she only squeals her vowels like "eeee!" or "aaaa!") which Dr. White said most kids are starting to do at this point. She was not overly concerned, but she said we need to keep an eye on the fluid level to make sure it is not impacting her hearing and thus delaying her speech skills. She gave us a prescription for amoxicillin though she said there is no conclusive evidence that this will help; she thought it was better to try this first before referring to an ENT doctor to consider tubes. We have a follow-up appointment on July 1 to see if there is any progress, and she wants us to make an extra effort to make the consonant sounds with her. So, we'll keep going and see what happens.
Mia typically eats 5 times a day (about 8:30, 11, 2, 5 and 8) with about 6 ounces at each feeding, but we just started her on rice cereal over the past weekend. I had wanted to wait until after tax season, but then there were trips (yea!) and other things that I kept postponing starting her on it; I like to make sure there is going to be consistency in a kid's schedule before changing something big on them (Lily's potty-training is next on my "to do" list). She always watches us intensely when we're eating and since she sits up pretty well now, we thought it was a good time. She seems to enjoy the cereal; she opens her mouth really wide and leans forward to get it. We're still working on getting her to swallow it without pushing it back out. Dr. White suggested going ahead and giving her some fruits or veggies since those might be a tad thicker and easier for her to swallow instead of runny cereal, so we'll try that today or tomorrow. Here are some pictures from her first meal on Saturday. You'll see Lily in the background cheering her on; she loves her baby sister!
Mia is an excellent sleeper. She started sleeping through the night (11PM to 7AM) at 8 weeks old which was wonderful. She now goes down for the night at about 8:15 just after her last feeding, and she typically sleeps until about 8 or 8:30 the next morning. She wakes up and makes sweet little babbling noises for a few minutes until we go get her. She takes three naps during the day: an hour long one around 10AM, a 2-3 hour long one around 2:30 and a short 30-45 minute one around 6:30. She typically wakes up refreshed and happy after each one. She has lots of fun when she gets a bath before bedtime too; she loves splashing in the water!
We are so blessed to have a two healthy, sweet, precious and beautiful little girls. We are both so proud of them, and we can't wait to see what their futures hold!
