Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Lily's Songs
God is family
God loves me
I love God
God loves me
God loves Mommy
God loves Daddy
God loves Lily
God loves Mia
and Jesus too
I thought it was pretty sweet. She also made up a song about her new book, her pillows and her stuffed animals. You never know what she'll sing about!
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Lily's Big Day!
Today, Ryan, Lily and Mia brought Chick-fil-a up to the office for lunch. Lily said she likes coming to work, and she brought me a picture from home that she colored. After we ate, Lily was exploring my office when she suddenly stopped, and said "Mommy, I have to go poopy." I replied "I'm sorry Lily, but I don't have any Pull-Ups here. Do you want to go use Mommy's big potty?" She loves to try out new toilets (we have to visit every one at almost every restaurant we go to), so she agreed. She said down and immediately pooped. I started cheering and clapping. SO EXCITING!!! As she was washing her hands, she asked "Are you proud of me for going poopy in the potty?" to which I enthusiastically replied "YES!" Ryan, Kim and Mia were all waiting outside the bathroom, so they started cheering too, and then we called Bama to tell her. Lily was so proud of herself! She climbed up into my chair, grabbed a highlighter and a piece of paper and said "I'm going to write a note that says 'Dear Lily, I went poopy in the potty.' Mommy, how do you spell potty?" So I told her and she said "I know how to write those letters!" I said "Okay, so 'P'..." and Lily cut me off to say "I have to spell Lily first." I looked back a minute later and she had written out "Lily Potty." Again, she was so proud of herself! I want to frame this paper I am so excited. She then proceeded to draw on lots of pieces of paper and said she was going to give them to Daddy because he's a good daddy; how sweet is that?
Then it was time to go home, but Lily has the promise of a cupcake from McEntyre's, a trip to the Dollar Store before nap time, toys when Mommy gets home and dinner and play time at Chuck E Cheese tonight. We also want to have a "potty party" soon to celebrate. Isn't this good motivation to go poopy in the potty again? I never thought I would be so excited about this kind of stuff, but man, she made my day!
The Newest Habit
Monday, April 26, 2010
A Normal Weekend
On Friday, I left the office at 4; I love that our office now officially closes at 4. I picked up Mia when I got home and took her to Target with me. Lily stayed at home with Ryan. Mia is at one of my favorite ages, so I absolutely love getting one on one time with her now. She pointed out every ball she could find (it's amazing how many balls Target has) because she loves to play with balls. She sat contently in the buggy, snacking on some crackers and occasionally squealing. She's such a sweetheart. We finished our shopping and went home where Lily was thrilled to see her new "Minnie Mouse flip flops." She loves them and has asked to wear them every day since Friday night.
About 7 our friend Nancy came over to keep the girls so we could enjoy a dinner out with our friends, Jennifer and Anthony. Jennifer and Ryan have been friends since elementary school, and we quickly became friends when Ryan and I started dating at Samford. She and Anthony have been dating for a few months now, so we were thrilled that they were coming to Atlanta for the weekend, and we could meet him. We met at Pricci, and enjoyed catching up with Jennifer and meeting Anthony. We hope to have the chance to do it again soon!
On Saturday morning, Ryan and Lily went to run some errands which ended in a trip to Chuck E Cheese. Lily again loved the big horse racing ride and rode it about 15 times. Mia and I had fun at home; we ate, read books and played kitchen. After the girls' afternoon naps, we went to US Cafe for dinner and then went to explore Costco. We're not members there, but we just wanted to stay out for a bit, so we thought we would explore there. It was a calm and relaxing day.
Sunday morning we went to church and then had lunch with our friends, Wendy and Wendel. They announced in Sunday School that they are expecting their first child so we had lots to talk about! We all took afternoon naps when we got home and then we went to McKayla's birthday party Sunday evening. She will be 10 in just a few days - wow! It was a small family party because she had her friends party the weekend before. All the kids had fun playing together; they have a fun playground, trampoline, train set, kitchen set and play-dough area the girls couldn't get enough of. We always enjoy getting to spend time with our family. Happy birthday McKayla!
All that to say, it's so nice that life has returned to normal!
Monday, April 19, 2010
From the Mouths of Babes...
1. The three things Mia has no problem saying: "Uh-uhn" as she shakes her head no. "Thank you" which she says whenever you hand her any thing (it's precious to see and hear, and I'm trying to get it on video so I can upload it and you can hear her too). "Waffle" That's right, as is in the breakfast food. The girl loves them and can't get enough of them. Whenever you ask if she wants more, she nods her head, signs more and says "waffle."
2. I love putting Lily to bed because before we say our prayers, I ask what she is thankful for. I try not to direct her answers or say "really???" with some of her responses; you just never know what she'll say. For instance, on Friday night, when asked what she is thankful for, she responded "that Bama likes to play with me. Tell God I'm thankful for that." How sweet is that? On Saturday night though her response was "for my new trashcan. Any my Ladybug book. Tell God I'm thankful for both of those things." Seriously?
From the mouths of babes...
Sunday, April 18, 2010
Post Tax Season Weekend
We got home just after Lily had gone to bed, and she actually got out of bed a few minutes later. I went to put her back down and she was so excited to see me. After a big hug, she said "Mommy, I have a surprise for you and Daddy, come on!" I thought about saying no and putting her back to bed but she was so excited, I couldn't. She took me by the hand, and we walked out to get Ryan. She led us to our bedroom where we could see our surprise. Lily had painted each of us a picture frame ("Pink because pink is my favorite color") and put stickers spelling Lily and Mia on it plus some pretty flower stickers on them. She had also put some Dove candies out for both of us, and I received several magazines (my favorite way of relaxing). Liz also gave each of us a gift card to use just on ourselves which was very appreciated. Lily was so excited about giving us these things. She was precious to watch. Thank you so much to Liz for "helping" her put this together and for all the wonderful help you have given!
Our office was closed on Friday, and we wanted to spend the whole day with the girls. We got up that morning, had breakfast and headed out to the zoo. It was a beautiful day; a perfect one for being outside. The flamingos are right inside the gate, so we of course went to them first. They were cleaning out their space, so they were bunched up near the top, but Lily was still excited to see them. She immediately took out her camera to take a picture. After she took it, she turned to me and said "they all smiled and said cheese for me." Here's the resulting picture.
We enjoyed our time there even though it was pretty crowded. Here are some more pictures we took while visiting.On Saturday, Ryan took Lily to run some errands with him in the morning, and I got to spend some time alone with Mia. What a treat! I am so amazed every time I am with her. I remember being like this with Lily too; just amazed at every thing she is learning. You would think the second go-round would be less impressive, but it's not. I am so in love with this little one! We spent close to an hour in the play kitchen. Mia would mix things in a bowl with a spoon that was way too big for her (it's one of my old silicone mixing ones), but she didn't care. She would mix a few things, then put it in the oven, turn the knob to make the timer sound, open the oven, remove whatever she had cooked and pretend to eat it or offer it to me to eat. She did all this too while sitting on an upside down green storage box so she would be at the right height; she would scoot all around on it. Then she had a blast practicing jumping as she would stand on a box top (approximately 1 inch from the ground), hold my hands and "jump." Of course, it was more of a quick step off, but to her, it was jumping and the look of joy on her face was priceless; I couldn't stop to get the camera because I wanted to see the look on her face again and again. We read a book together which always thrills me, and we sang some songs together. It was much-needed time together. I could see she was starting to get tired though, so I finally put her down for a nap, and then decided to lay back down myself just because I could.
Ryan and Lily got home, but let me sleep for awhile longer until Mia woke up. We decided to go Steak and Shake for lunch and try their new Kool-Aide milkshakes; if you're wondering, they taste just like Kool-Aide. After lunch we drove down to the playground just for a change of scenery. The girls had lots of fun playing on the two playgrounds there. After becoming so brave on the beanstalk at the zoo, Lily decided to try the little rock-climbing wall they have on one of the playgrounds. She would climb about 3 feet into the air and then step onto the platform again and again and again. I love seeing how proud of herself she is after doing something new like this! After about an hour, we decided to head to Karen's down the street because it is an adorable store, and the owner has decided to retire; she's having a 50% off sale right now so we found several cute things at a great price.
After nap time, Ryan headed down to the Braves game with Charlie and Brian which is something he loves to do. He even came back with a great new hat. I think this was a fun way for him to relax after a long tax season; he definitely deserves it with all the hard work he put in. While he was there, the girls and I had breakfast for dinner (a favorite around our home) and just enjoyed playing together. After Mia went to bed, Lily and I cleaned up the playroom and then cuddled while watching Charlie and Lola and reading a couple of books together. It was really nice to have some time alone with her too. After she went to bed, I put up a few things and then watched a Netflix movie called "My Sister's Keeper." It was an incredibly difficult movie to watch (the story revolves around a family who has a daughter with leukemia), but it was wonderfully done and acted. While not really a relaxing movie, it was nice to have some quiet to just enjoy to myself.
On Sunday morning, we all went to church which was great. It was wonderful to catch up with our friends, the Barbados and the Rohans, at Moe's afterwards too. We came home and Mia immediately went down for her nap; Sundays always throw her off schedule. Lily and I played for a little bit and then watched the second half of Horton Hears A Who, a movie she loves. When the movie ended, it was time for her nap. Mia woke up shortly thereafter, and she and I played together some more. We were back in her kitchen which was still fun. Lily came out a little while later, and then Mia actually needed to go back down for a late second nap. While she napped and Ryan watched the Braves game, Lily and I went to Publix which is something we both enjoy. We had a fun evening all playing together and both girls went to bed without problems.
This has been a wonderful weekend decompressing after the stress of tax season. We have about 10 weeks of extremely hard work, and at times, it becomes really difficult and I'm not sure it's worth it. However, when I think of the flexibility and opportunities it affords us the other 42 weeks of the year (and even during those 10 weeks when necessary), I realize how fortunate we are to have this business. I have to say though, I am glad life can return to normal again though, and this was a great way to welcome "normal" back!
Lily's Camera
It also has lots of fun settings to enhance the pictures. Lily has a good time adding these in. Pretty cute, right?While these are all pictures of Lily (and one of Mia), I just want to include this entry to document Lily's love of taking pictures. She has so much fun with it! She's a lot like her Daddy that way!
Monday, April 12, 2010
A Girl and Her Shoes
Sunday, April 11, 2010
Different Girls
We have recently noticed this especially when they are eating. Lily has always LOVED pasta with alfredo sauce. She asks for it often when we're out to eat. You would think "Great! That's something they can easily share." Nope. Mia spits it right back out at you. While Lily happily munches away on penne alfredo, Mia prefers my turkey/swiss/gorgonzola-walnut panini, or Bama's spaghetti with mushroom sauce. Tonight while eating at Carrabbas, Lily asked for a cheese pizza with no bubbles; she doesn't like the air bubbles that pizza crusts sometimes have. Mia enjoyed a few bites of it, but then preferred Ryan's and mine's entrees: pollo rosa maria (chicken with prosciutto and fontina cheese) and chicken bryan (grilled chicken with goat cheese and sundried tomatoes). She was eating the sundried tomatoes like they were going out of style! How does an almost 17-month-old even develop a taste for goat cheese and sundried tomatoes! Mia will eat fruit, especially bananas and peaches, all day; Lily pretty much sticks to apples and maybe a few strawberries or grapes now and then. Lily loves carrots; Mia won't touch them. They can both agree on quesidillas, grilled cheese and ice cream but that's about it!
It's also fun to watch them learn. Lily has always loved to read books, and she has something of a photographic memory once she sees a picture of it in a book or on tv. Mia needs to see it in action so she can repeat and imitate. When she sees us do something (like wipe off the table for crumbs), she tries to do the same thing. While it's been pretty easy to teach things like colors, numbers and ABCs to Lily, it will be interesting to see how Mia will learn these things. We'll figure it out as we go.
Of course, their personalities are very different too. At dinner again tonight, a waiter stopped at our table to comment on Mia's eyes; she smiled at him and blew him a kiss. He turned his attention to Lily who immediately buried her head into my arm. Earlier today, Bama took the girls to Centennial Park to play. Mia wanted to try out a new slide and the water fountains; she had no problem playing with the big kids on it too. Lily prefers to stay back and watch the action. Lily often says she wants to be shy for a little while when we first arrive somewhere while Mia will run right into the middle of the action.
It is so fascinating to me to watch our girls. I can really understand now what people mean when they say you have to be a student of your kids to figure how to best teach them and meet their needs. As different as they are from one another, they both are so loving and sweet. They make us laugh every single day and bring us more joy than we thought possible. We are so blessed by these two, and we look forward to all the adventures that are before us!



